Hello Parents,
One of the potential pains of elementary education is the idea that mistakes indicate failure. Failure to meet a given standard specifically means that one has not demonstrated adequate understanding of the concept, or they lack adequate demonstration of a skill.
Failure is not a prediction of future results. It is itself a result and nothing more. While failing to meet standards may signal that weaknesses are present in one's understanding, it is not in itself a relegation to a group, category, or statistic.
Basically, failure is a choice. In order to be relegated to a group, a person has to choose to accept that they fit in with the group and its characteristics. By choosing to accept failure, one accepts the limitations imposed not by the failure, but by the recent results as measured in that particular manner. In order to be successful, one has to be measured again, but preparation for that measurement is also a choice.
High achievers choose to evaluate their own skills and decide not to accept the limitations recent results may indicate.
If one strengthens skills and adjusts strategies and thought processes, comprehension and demonstration of ability will change and potentially improve. This is why success is the result of consistent, focused application of strategies and processes, rather than a destiny where the perceived "lucky" or "fortunate" find a welcoming finish line of supporters.
Steven R. Covey points out in his book, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, that a public victory must be preceded by a private victory. In other words, before a person can overcome failure and rise to success, they must work to decide themselves where they should devote their attention. This requires self-evaluation on a daily basis.
The public victory of successful scholarship ultimately begins with the student and the private victories they have already experienced through devotion to their own sense of success.
Sincerely,
Alex McGill