Hello Parents,
Thank you for sending your students in ready to learn and participate in our class activities. Ms. Wilson and Ms. Huffman have noted that many of your students are having to return to school after dismissal for forgotten homework. This is a foreshadowing of your future next year! :)
In order to "nip this in the bud",(to quote Barney Fife of the Andy Griffith show) please avoid bringing your forelorn child to the school in order to collect the forgotten items. Our classroom doors will be locked once we have left so that children won't be able to enter classrooms without teacher supervision. This is a positive remedy for a negative habit. As long as we reinforce irresponsibility in our students, (by allowing them to be unfocused in the afternoon) they will live up to the low expectations they have for themselves.
At this point, it is their responsibility to be certain they have their work each afternoon. Our class has homework Monday through Friday. There are few exceptions to this, but keep in mind that the feeling of worry a child may have due to lack of preparation can be motivational. It may help them change their habits so that they will be more responsible.
Thank you for your understanding and acceptance of this policy change.
In a related area, here is some important spring information from our Guidance Office about Mabry Middle School Orientation:
Mabry Orientation Dates
May 5, 6:30-8:00pm Mabry Parent Night (at Mabry)
May 6, 9:30-11am 5th grade to Mabry*
*Here are some key points to remember about this visit to Mabry Middle School by our students:
Students from Garrison Mill need to be appropriately dressed for the occasion, and need to focus primarily on learning about the middle school environment, its expectations, policies, and facilities. Though there are social aspects to this trip, the focus really is on getting the students acclimated to what they will be doing as middle school students. Active listening, observation, and thoughtful questioning about the environment they will see are encouraged.
You may help encourage your child to see this as an opportunity to feel sure of what is to come. Ask questions of them before the trip. What do they expect to see? What do they think will be different? What will be the same? How much preparation will they need over the summer? Is there more work in each class? Any of these will peak their interest level and will give them a directed reason for behaving purposefully.
After they return, debrief them of what they noticed, thought, heard, wondered, and enjoyed. The middle school is where many students begin to have challenges in their learning that differ from their past experiences. For some students, it is a validation of past efforts in development of skills. For others, it is a new set of variables which demand greater attention and focus from them (and ultimately, from parents). Encourage your child to discuss what they believe will be fun about this transition (as well as what worries they may have). If they appear to believe they will find the transition "easy", delve into why they have this perception. It is common for students to overlook potential obstacles to their success because they only see what is clearly stated. They may not realize that the opportunities of the middle school experience also bring about the responsibilites of successful execution (planning, preparation, organization, collaboration, accountability, etc.).
In asking questions before and after the trip, you will be modeling supportive listening with an emphasis on having them arrive at their own conclusions. This may take time. You may need to begin your pre-trip discussion during spring break, when you will have more time to spend together. During this period of relaxation and renewal, you may see your child's perception of the experience open up to you. Take advantage of the opportunity to listen to them and consider what they tell you. Your time spent in conversation with your future middle schooler is vital to you both. Through this interaction, you will remain a resource for help, support, and love during these challenging transitional years.
Happy springtime!
Alex McGill